MIND OVER HEART

The mind is often confuse and stuck, but the heart knows what is right. The heart knows what is the right direction and the mind knows how to figure what to do to get there.

"Teach our minds how to love and teach our hearts how to think." Sometimes our hearts pulls us to one direction while our minds to the other direction. We don't know which way we are going to choose. Sometimes there are things that we feel are wrong, but we don 't know why. We don't know the reason for it, but our hearts tell that is not right. "We know the truth not only by the reason, but by the heart."

Not all the time heart must be followed. There are times where our minds contradict with our heart's decisions and desires. For example, when we love someone, Especially among teenagers like me. We don't rely on our brains but only use the heart. Because teenagers are usually softhearted and don't know yet how to deal with heartaches. Because we lack of experience.

Loving, and being love is a very special feeling, it's makes us happy. But there is nothing permanent in this word. People change, and feelings also do. After all the happiness, sadness might replace it. Heartbreaks will surely occur, the reason of never ending waste of tears.

Holding on or letting go are the choices. But if we still see chances and reasons to hold on, well try it again. Everyone deserves a second chance. But if it's continuous and a never ending heartbreaks, It's time to use our brain and follow the mind. We have to let go, because of pain. I know letting go of someone is pretty hard, but what is harder? Facing the never ending heartbreaks or letting go?

In loving someone, we must not only use the heart, we also use the brain. It's not a bad thing to follow the heart, but it will be better if we can balance it with what our minds says. We just have to know the right time to use the heart and when is the right time to use the brain.